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Recent Posts
- Election Campaign 2024: Rejections, Accusations and Psychological Projections
- Why ‘Weird’ is Such a Loaded Word
- 'Pebbling' is Small Acts of Caring – What better Way to Show Respect?
- FactChecking the Biden-Trump Debate – My Impressions of Theater of the Absurd
- A Smile and A Nod and A Hello
- The Dark and Deadly Side of ‘Giving Permission’
- Let's Talk About Resilience
- When Rejection Leads to Self-rejection and Feels Like Shame
- The Pied Piper of Mar-a-Lago
- CHOOSING KINDNESS
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